Marriage is not for everyone, nor is being single for everyone. Our society has developed an attitude that marriage is a necessary evil when it was intended to be a blessing.
Most people jump into marriage without weighing the commitment of marriage. And a lot can’t accept it neither are the prepared for the spiritual,emotional,physical and material commitment.
The First thing to realise is that your body is no longer yours. The second thing is that once you are married,you time and attention are no longer yours. Please don’t jump quick into marriage unless you are pretty sure you have what it takes to make it work.
So before you start chasing that lady or that man you want to spend the rest of your life with, make sure it’s someone you can chase until death.
Myles Munroe advised in one of his books that we should endeavor to Love someone because of their attitude,character,inner spirit being,love someone because of all the things that will never change.
Love may conquer a person’s physical body, emotions, and mind but love cannot subdue a person’s will. that must be surrendered and submitted by the choice of the person.
Marriage is more than a legal contractual agreement,it is the joining and uniting of 2souls wherein lies the center of submission,values, and spiritual perception.
Don’t get married if you aren’t ready to stay married,i tell you if you marry just because of passion,your marriage will passionately destroy someday.
If marriage is properly understood,there will be no need for considering divorce at any point of the marriage.because as your body is not designed for worry so also is your marriage not designed for destruction or divorce. if the souls are not compatible, the relationship is on a course of tragic disaster.
I wish you all the best and please ask questions, my Friend if you have any atall…
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